The Bright side!

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Hello Lovelies, So I know I've been slacking this week and my head has been filled with tons of ideas but I just haven't had the creativity or the time to plan any of them. This post isn't going to be filled with any of the ideas, it's something a little different.

It's officially November, which of course everyone knows unless you have no calender, phone, Internet, and haven't been counting the days since you last seen fireworks and the words happy new year somewhere. I don't know about any of you reading this, but I seem like I haven't gotten anywhere since September. Lots of you guys have probably started college or a new job, moving on to bigger and better things, like myself I've started my second and last year in college, started this blog and although they are great things, I feel like I'm in a rut. 

A friend of mine said they felt the exact same, he started a job a few months back and loved it when he started but it's such a routine now and he feels like he's stuck doing the whole 'daily grind' thing. 

My blogs only one month old and my head is still buzzing with idea's till this point, but life overall just seems a bit, how do you say in text talk? oh yes, Meh!

Though I do have lots to be thankful for, my family, friends, the people who have read this blog and the milestones and things I have gotten out of it, so don't get me wrong, I'm not ungrateful about any of this, for having this blog for one month and getting the opportunity's I have so far, I'm forever thankful! *cheesy smile to self*

The fact I even get to attend college as well is a privilege because many people don't even have the ability or resources to better their mind and learn new things, those people are really stuck in the 'daily routine'. 

I think what I'm trying to say or justify to myself is that even though we may all feel a little down, or like life is just repeating itself every day, that we don't have it bad. I'm a bit of a positive thinker and I know many people don't have that mindset, but even if things are a little rough at home, college or even school just know that there's always something to outweigh the bad!

When something bad happens in my life I try not to stay sad for too long, I don't like staying in bed all day and feeling sorry for myself and crying for hours on end, so what do I do? Find something new to focus on and when the joy from finding this new thing wears away I sit back and think of all the good things. 

Sometimes I write a list of all the good things like friends, family, the fact I can attend college and all the little opportunity's or even concerts I can attend and then write that one bad thing that has happened (or the series of bad things) down beside them and 98% of the time it turns out all those bad things aren't as bad, and they couldn't be helped. 

So yes this post isn't the fashion, beauty, typical lifestyle thing I usually post but I've been feeling stuck in a rut lately and since I feel like I'm finally getting out of that rut with some positive thinking and focusing on all the good things in my life I thought I might as well share this and hope that if someone feels the same they might get the little kick up the bum to find something new or just realise they aren't alone! 

So thank you for reading this and every other post and sharing and viewing my blog because seriously, the reaction I got and the great things that have come out of it have been amazing and I'll never take any of them, big or small, for granted! We all start from the bottom so we shouldn't think we're greater then anyone else either. 

Okay I'll stop rambling and if anyone needs a chat or cheering up, I have tons of really silly (and terrible) jokes so just DM or message me. 

Don't forget to smile! 

Stay Fab!

Melody x